It took a long time for me to realize that there is something special about the way i hate someone.
It is just not ordinary ,plain or simple hatred.
Its intensity is powerful and i have NO regrets for it.

If love is artistic, so is hatred.
Unless you know how to love, you wont know how to hate.
And if you think love and hate are two different phenomena, you are absolutely mistaken.
Love and hate are same energies occupying two different ends of the same pole. They have different polarities.
It is the same energy that travels from one end to another.
When love stands upside down it is hate.
When hate stands upside down it is love.
Never ever mistake them for two different energies.

When you love someone, you love whole heartedly. You simply dont reserve anything. Either it is total or it is simply absent.
There is no room for a compromise when it comes to giving everything that you are capable of.

Have you noticed, when it comes to hatred, some how we are forced to compromise.
But the same yardstick is not applied to love. We want more of love and no one persuades us to stop half way through.
But when you show hatred , people intervene and advice to shake hands.
They say it is not healthy to develop a hatred for some one.
Somwhere, the whole of the energy which piled up in the process to hate some one has been scuttled halfway through due to extraneous influence.

People are totally mistaken.
They have buried your hatred prematurely.
They have not known that the intervention has only resulted in temporary suspension of the hatred. Remember it has not completely vanished.
It has not been eradicted or exterminated.
Its Just suspended for a while and will resume at the trivial trigger.

Have you noticed, only people who have loved inveterately can hate one intensively.
I have seen, when two lovers fight they dig into the past to cull out each others flaw to score a point against the other.
If you camly witness the whole scenario you will realize that they are only attempting to reach the same level of love in the escalating process of hatred.
The process of reconcilliation or the compromise almost takes the same time period which one took to reach the optimum level in love.
People who have perfected the art of loving and hating can never nourish any ill wlll against the other.
Equally there is no disappointment either.
What ever temper and anger that is exhibited is just momentary and it is a matter of time before the transition from one to other takes place smoothly and inevitably

Love and hate or so essential and an integral part of your character.
We have not been created only to love.
Neither can we simply hate.

They are present in the right measure
And to experience them is a pleasure.

http://harshalawyer.sulekha.com/blog/post/2008/09/the-art-of-perfect-hatred.htm